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RelationshipEmotional Abandonment
#RI-6aef1a57·6 months ago·
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“Chasing an unresponsive partner”

My husband abandoned me emotionally during a health crisis, and I felt ignored and unloved

What I wish I knew
"He didn't love me enough to be present during my illness"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't chase someone who doesn't want to work on the relationship"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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