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RelationshipsUnwanted Attraction
#RI-6ae08f83·29 days ago·
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“Developed unhealthy feelings for coworker”

Found myself thinking about coworker in a sexual way, affecting sex life with fiancé

What I wish I knew
"How to control these feelings"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with yourself and seek help if needed"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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