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Unexpected ParentingLate Discovery
#RI-6aedd9f6·5 months ago·
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Lookback: Over a year after initial discovery

“Got informed about a 12-year-old son”

Found out 12 years after conception, mom kept it a secret, and I'm now a dad

What I wish I knew
"How to navigate co-parenting and socialization challenges"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be patient and willing to put in effort to help your child adjust"
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Significant downsides.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
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