“Reconnecting with an ex after 12 years”

Item: Reconnecting with an ex after 12 years
Rating: 3
Author: u/Low_Cricket3603

What Actually Happened

I'm reconnecting with an ex from age 16-19, but my dad doesn't approve due to past disagreements

What I wish I knew

"My dad's past judgments were rooted in my mom's opinions"

Advice to Someone Facing This Now

If I could tell you one thing

"Communicate openly with your dad, but also set boundaries if necessary"

Regret Index

7/10

Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.

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Relationships Category

3,331

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Same Outcome Band

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