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#RI-69f874ce·5 months ago·
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Wife left me unexpectedly after 21 years

Wife stopped communicating, started having late nights with friends, and moved money to other accounts, leading to separation

What I wish I knew
"She was unhappy with me and our marriage for a year before leaving"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't ignore signs of trouble in your relationship"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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