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RelationshipUncertainty
#RI-6abc898b·3 months ago·
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“Wait it out or move on”

Boyfriend expressed uncertainty about marriage and kids after 3.5 years together, causing relationship tension and insecurity

What I wish I knew
"If he was truly unsure, would he have committed to living together"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly about expectations and uncertainties in a relationship"
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7/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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