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#RI-6ac32114·about 2 months ago·
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Lookback: 5 years

“Spent weeks planning boyfriend's birthday and anniversary”

Boyfriend didn't do anything for me on our anniversary, spent time with family instead

What I wish I knew
"How to approach the conversation without being upset"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly about expectations"
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6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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