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#RI-6a23c8d3·6 months ago·
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Didn't act on my gut feeling about my wife's past with Jordan

I found out my wife had a physical relationship with her ex, Jordan, without disclosing the truth to me

What I wish I knew
"I wish I had pushed her for the truth sooner"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with your partner about your past, and be transparent about your relationships"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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