relationalfriendship
#RI-6ac23d3a·3 months ago·
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“I trusted my friend with a crisis”
What Actually Happened
I froze and was raped by a friend who knew about my past abuse
What I wish I knew
"I should have known something was wrong when he responded to my boyfriend"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Trust your instincts and prioritize your own safety"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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relational Category
129
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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