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avoidant attachmentemotional manipulation
#RI-69a91750·2 months ago·
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trusted someone with avoidant attachment

I fell for his illusions and stayed in a toxic relationship, still love him but feel stupid for believing him

What I wish I knew
"how to recognize avoidant attachment patterns"
If I could tell you one thing
"be cautious of people who use emotional manipulation"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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avoidant attachment Category
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