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#RI-69a916d1·4 months ago·
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“chasing an avoidant partner”
What Actually Happened
I fell in love with an avoidant partner, but they kept pulling away. I tried to win them back, but it only led to more pain and heartache.
What I wish I knew
"Avoidant partners don't change, and chasing them is a waste of time."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't chase an avoidant partner; it's better to move on and find someone who truly loves you back."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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