What Actually Happened
I fell in love with an avoidant partner, but they kept pulling away. I tried to win them back, but it only led to more pain and heartache.
What I wish I knew
"Avoidant partners don't change, and chasing them is a waste of time."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't chase an avoidant partner; it's better to move on and find someone who truly loves you back."
Regret Score
8/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
breakup Category Average
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Impact
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Financial and Psychosocial impact distributions for this subset.
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