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#RI-6a6b050b·9 months ago·
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“Tolerating toxic behavior”

My wife's constant spending, lack of accountability, and jealousy have created a toxic environment in our marriage.

What I wish I knew
"How to address issues without her becoming defensive and passive-aggressive"
If I could tell you one thing
"Set clear boundaries and prioritize self-care to avoid emotional exhaustion"
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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