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relationalabusive relationship
#RI-69a916bc·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 1 week into the new year

ended 14-year relationship due to abuse

experienced emotional and verbal abuse, felt trapped, and hurt by her behavior

What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known how to set boundaries and prioritize my own well-being earlier"
If I could tell you one thing
"be aware of the signs of an abusive relationship and prioritize your own safety and happiness"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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