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#RI-6ab8fbe5·4 months ago·
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“tolerate his grumpiness on dates”

My boyfriend's constant grumpiness ruined our date, again. He complained about minor issues and wouldn't let me enjoy the evening.

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to deal with his negativity and make him see the bigger picture."
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't tolerate someone's grumpiness if it affects your happiness and well-being."
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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