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#RI-69a9102e·2 months ago·
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Told girlfriend to consider meal cost

Girlfriend got angry and hurt after I mentioned meal cost

What I wish I knew
"Communicate financial concerns more effectively"
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider and discuss financial differences with partner in advance"
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6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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