Relationshipscommunication
#RI-69a9102e·4 months ago·
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“Told girlfriend to consider meal cost”
What Actually Happened
Girlfriend got angry and hurt after I mentioned meal cost
What I wish I knew
"Communicate financial concerns more effectively"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider and discuss financial differences with partner in advance"
Regret Index
6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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Same Outcome Band
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