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RelationshipsEmotional Inequality
#RI-6a7aa9be·5 months ago·
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“Told boyfriend I love him”

Hearing he's not emotionally invested hurt me deeply

What I wish I knew
"He'd open up sooner"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate feelings openly to avoid emotional inequality"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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