RelationshipUnexpected Parenting Responsibilities
#RI-6ae5d4c9·4 months ago·
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“took in girlfriend's brother”
What Actually Happened
resentful towards girlfriend for taking in her brother, feel like I'm a dad overnight
What I wish I knew
"considered long-term implications of taking in a child"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"think carefully before taking on unexpected parenting responsibilities"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationship Category
370
Relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
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