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#RI-6ab8fd58·4 months ago·
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Lookback: over 1 year after discovering the affair

“Let him back in after kicking him out”

Caught husband's mistress on phone, threatened her to stay away

What I wish I knew
"The extent of their relationship"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't let him back in if he's still in contact with the mistress"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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relational Category
129
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.