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relationalending a relationship
#RI-69a91293·2 months ago·
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struggling to end a relationship with my boyfriend

I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a year, but our intimacy before marriage is causing me guilt and pain

What I wish I knew
"I wish I had considered my faith and values before getting close"
If I could tell you one thing
"End a relationship softly yet firmly for the other person's sake, prioritize your own happiness and well-being"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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