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#RI-6ae6b98a·3 months ago·
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Lookback: 15 years of relationship

“Can't get partner to stop pushing me to do things”

Partner's constant pressure makes us both miserable and causes burnout

What I wish I knew
"How to communicate effectively without guilt-tripping"
If I could tell you one thing
"Set clear boundaries and avoid giving in to avoid exhaustion"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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