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#RI-69f877e0·5 months ago·
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Staying cordial with ex despite him seeing other people

Ex still sees other people, unsure about commitment, and wants to keep me as an option

What I wish I knew
"Being clear about boundaries and intentions earlier"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't stay in limbo, prioritize your own needs and well-being"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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