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#RI-69a9148b·2 months ago·
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Started dating despite differing views on sex

Partner wants to stop having sex due to fear of judgment from church and family

What I wish I knew
"Understand her motivations and boundaries earlier"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly about values and expectations"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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