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New MotherhoodLoss of Identity
#RI-6acf037b·5 months ago·
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“Became a mother after partner's death”

Lost partner during pregnancy, now feel isolated and caged in as a mother

What I wish I knew
"How to balance motherhood with maintaining personal identity"
If I could tell you one thing
"Seek support from non-mother friends to avoid feeling isolated"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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