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#RI-6ab5f210·about 2 months ago·
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“Didn't speak up during sex when in pain”

BF didn't stop or slow down when I complained during sex that it hurt

What I wish I knew
"To speak up more clearly during sex"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate boundaries clearly and assertively"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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