ParentingNeglect
#RI-6aeea340·17 days ago·
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“Raised my brother first”
What Actually Happened
My parents neglected me due to my brother's needs, causing me to develop health issues and a phobia of food. I'm still struggling with the consequences today.
What I wish I knew
"They prioritized my brother's needs over mine, and I wish I had known that I deserved better care."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't neglect your younger sibling's needs, as it can lead to long-term emotional and physical harm."
Regret Index
9/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Parenting Category
141
Parenting decisions logged. Avg regret 5.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
52%
of Parenting decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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