WorkplaceCoworker relationships
#RI-6ac475d5·6 months ago·
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“I need to stop giving her rides on my days off”
What Actually Happened
My coworker took my kindness for granted and implied I'd always pick her up, hurting my feelings
What I wish I knew
"Her behavior was manipulative and I should've set boundaries sooner"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate your boundaries clearly and be prepared to reevaluate your kindness"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Workplace Category
47
Workplace decisions logged. Avg regret 6.9/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
68%
of Workplace decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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