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RelationshipViolence
#RI-6ae489a1·about 1 month ago·
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“Hit back after being hit”

Boyfriend hit me, I hit back, got restraining order

What I wish I knew
"Physical violence can escalate quickly"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't retaliate, prioritize safety"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Relationship Category
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Relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.3/10 across the category.
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