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#RI-69ba78ba·4 months ago·
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“Seeking honest answers about household responsibilities”
What Actually Happened
I feel like I'm constantly managing our household and dealing with messes my partner leaves behind
What I wish I knew
"There are men who genuinely split chores and mental load equally"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and set clear expectations for household responsibilities"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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