“step up for my mom”

Item: step up for my mom
Rating: 3
Author: u/No-Bowler2808

What Actually Happened

I don't know my uncle well, he's on the East Coast, I'm on the West Coast. I've been low-contact with my mom since she left rehab, she moved to live closer to him and stopped answering my calls.

What I wish I knew

"the full story around the relationship between my mother and I"

Advice to Someone Facing This Now

If I could tell you one thing

"communicate openly and honestly with family members"

Regret Index

7/10

Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.

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family Category

180

family decisions logged. Avg regret 7.7/10 across the category.

Same Outcome Band

13%

of family decisions land in the regret band the same as this one.