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#RI-6ac0e0fb·about 2 months ago·
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Lookback: 2 weeks after breakup

“Got back together despite past issues”

Ex changed after breakup, made me feel resentment for past treatment

What I wish I knew
"He would change without my efforts"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't get back together with someone who only changes after you've left"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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