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RelationshipsMoving In Together
#RI-6adc2d8c·4 months ago·
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Lookback: 1.5 years together

“Not ready to move in”

Boyfriend pressures me to move in for financial reasons, but I'm hesitant due to my own situation

What I wish I knew
"How to set clear boundaries without hurting his feelings"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate your needs and boundaries clearly, and be prepared to say no repeatedly"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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