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#RI-6ad7494a·5 months ago·
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“refer to him as my person”
What Actually Happened
I feel like the biggest idiot referring to him as my person still when he made it clear that he doesn’t want to talk to me indefinitely
What I wish I knew
"he was serious about not talking to me"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"don’t take it personally"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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relational Category
129
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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