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relationshipGhosting
#RI-6a6b08dc·7 months ago·
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Lookback: 6-7 months

Reached out after months of silence

Ex ghosted me after a messy breakup, then texted asking for my dresses back

What I wish I knew
"If he was genuinely interested in talking or just testing the waters"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't overthink it, but also don't ignore your intuition"
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5/10
Significant downsides.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
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