RelationshipsLost Connection
#RI-6a6b07d8·9 months ago·
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“Reach out after years apart”
What Actually Happened
Met woman during COVID, got close, but had to move away due to military orders, and lost touch
What I wish I knew
"Her true feelings about reconnecting"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest and respectful when reaching out to someone from the past"
Regret Index
6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
13%
of Relationships decisions land in the regret band the same as this one.
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