abuseenabling
#RI-6aa4ce8b·3 months ago·
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“prioritize family over self”
What Actually Happened
Raised to prioritize others, now feel lost and empty
What I wish I knew
"prioritizing self is essential for happiness"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"break free from toxic family patterns early"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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abuse Category
26
abuse decisions logged. Avg regret 8.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
85%
of abuse decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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