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#RI-6a7aa905·about 1 month ago·
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Lookback: 3 years of marriage

Feelings trumped by partner's needs

Partner's lack of initiative and help in basic tasks hurts my feelings and takes a toll on my mind

What I wish I knew
"He would acknowledge and address my feelings"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly about your feelings without fear of upsetting your partner"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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