relationshipsProposing
#RI-69ba77ad·4 months ago·
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“Partner's expectations are too high”
What Actually Happened
Partner had unreasonable expectations and snapped at me
What I wish I knew
"Her expectations were rooted in sibling rivalry"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly about expectations before proposing"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationships Category
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relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 6.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
57%
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