RelationshipManipulation
#RI-6adc2d93·6 months ago·
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“My partner consistently plays the victim”
What Actually Happened
He denies saying things I remember, tells me I'm overreacting, and I end up comforting him
What I wish I knew
"I should've set boundaries sooner"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't engage on their terms, set clear boundaries"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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Relationship Category
370
Relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of Relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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