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#RI-6a7aa952·7 months ago·
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“I let his behavior affect my hygiene routine”

My partner's controlling behavior made me feel guilty for showering, affecting my self-care

What I wish I knew
"I should have set boundaries earlier"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate your needs and boundaries clearly in relationships"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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