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boyfriend's behavior is affecting me

My boyfriend's behavior is causing me emotional pain and distress. He's being distant and silent, but then being affectionate and normal again, only to return to being distant and silent. It's confusing and hurtful.

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew what's causing his behavior and how to fix it"
If I could tell you one thing
"If you're in a similar situation, try to communicate openly with your partner and seek help if needed"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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