RelationshipsCommunication
#RI-6a6b03cf·9 months ago·
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“I dated my girlfriend despite our differences”
What Actually Happened
My girlfriend feels unwanted unless intimate, while I feel pressured to engage in her interests
What I wish I knew
"Her needs and desires were more important than mine"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly about differences in interests and intimacy"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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