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#RI-69ba784c·6 months ago·
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“Moved to a foreign country”

My girlfriend formed an emotional infatuation with a coworker while in an LDR with me, and lied about her intentions

What I wish I knew
"She was already emotionally detached from me"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious of emotional detachment in a long-distance relationship"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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