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#RI-6a7aa962·16 days ago·
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Lookback: 4 years

End relationship over new job

Moved abroad for partner, but new job would leave us with zero quality time and all chores on me

What I wish I knew
"Considered partner's needs before moving abroad"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate with partner about expectations and needs before making big decisions"
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9/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
SettledMixedSevere

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