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#RI-6ab6556e·2 months ago·
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“Moved in with him”
What Actually Happened
He got angry when I needed alone time, and later when I talked about birth control.
What I wish I knew
"He was unhappy with my boundaries and values."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly about boundaries and values before marriage."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationship Category
370
Relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of Relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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