What Actually Happened
I married my husband but our connection feels more like siblings and our intimate life is rare. I feel like I'm the problem because I'm not attracted to him and find myself seeking attention from other men.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had understood the difference between deep friendship and romantic love before getting married."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't marry someone out of dependency if the romantic connection isn't truly there."
Regret Score
8/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Relationships Category Average
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Impact
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