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relationshipInfidelity
#RI-69a915a5·2 months ago·
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Married 20 years, together 23 years

Husband started using steroids, had affair with stepsister, attempted suicide, had affair with coworker

What I wish I knew
"He was using steroids and the extent of his infidelity"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be aware of the signs of steroid use and the dangers of infidelity"
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High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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