marriageestranged family
#RI-6a7aa9f7·3 months ago·
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“married 20 years ago”
What Actually Happened
Enmeshment with mother led to neglect of wife and children
What I wish I knew
"set boundaries earlier"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"seek therapy for family dynamics"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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marriage Category
142
marriage decisions logged. Avg regret 8/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
87%
of marriage decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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