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#RI-6accecdb·4 months ago·
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Lookback: This year

“Hosted large birthday party for 13-year-old son”

Party turned chaotic with 30+ kids, fights, and bullying. Had to intervene multiple times.

What I wish I knew
"Puberty can make kids more aggressive and emotional."
If I could tell you one thing
"Set a smaller guest limit and consider more structured activities for teenage parties."
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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