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friendshipmaking friends as an adult
#RI-6a6b0950·7 months ago·
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trying to make friends despite being shy and a nerd in a small town

struggling to find like-minded people in a town with limited social options

What I wish I knew
"how to balance being myself with being more outgoing"
If I could tell you one thing
"join online communities or clubs that align with your interests to expand social circle"
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7/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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