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#RI-6ad4a18f·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 1 month after giving birth

“expected support from loved ones”

I feel invisible after giving birth, people focus on the baby

What I wish I knew
"people's behavior would change so drastically"
If I could tell you one thing
"communicate openly with loved ones about your needs"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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